Most guys feel like cavemen and they never want to admit they are in love with a girl (except she’s Dangote or Otedola’s Daughter) but the truth is at one point in our life we would all fall in love, we can hide it from others but we cant hide it from ourselves and these are the signs..
1. YOU KNOW HER FLAWS AND YOU DON’T CARE
She’s not perfect, but neither are you. When you’re looking for reasons not to be with someone, you tend to focus on their flaws as reasons to hit the bricks. But if you actually find her annoying laugh to be charming and you think that crooked front tooth is really cute, you’re done, son.
2. YOU START THINKING ABOUT THE FUTURE
When you’re just messing around, you sure as hell aren’t going to make any long-term plans. Even buying tickets to a concert six weeks away feels like a huge risk. But if you’re having thoughts of family, weekends away,…well, chances are, she’s a keeper.
3. WHEN TALKING TO YOUR FRIENDS ABOUT HER YOU LEAVE OUT THE GORY DETAILS
When you’re in love with a girl, you don’t want your friends to see her as just your latest cum-bucket. You’re perfectly fine talking about the frequency and mind-blowing nature of the sex, but when it comes to the graphic nature of all the filthy things you do to each other, you leave your buddies in the dark.
4. YOU WATCH LESS PORN
I didn’t say NO porn. Just… less.
5. YOU ACTUALLY LIKE HER
A lot of times, we pretend to be interested in whatever a girl is saying because we’re trying to bang her. But with this one, you find that you actually ARE interested. You like talking to her, you like hanging out with her. You like what you have in common and you like the ways you’re different. You can let your guard down and be yourself, like you do with your buddies.
6. YOU LET GO OF ALL YOUR BOOTY CALLS
If she’s Miss Right, then you find yourself willing to part with all the Miss Right Nows. In fact, you start wondering what you ever saw in them in the first place. Well—that’s not really true. You knew what they were good for. But now the thought of spending a few hours with these girls seems skeevy and depressing. You don’t need them anymore.
7. YOU HANG OUT WITH YOUR FRIENDS LESS OFTEN
You’d rather spend most nights having candlelit dinners than hitting Quilox with the boys, and that’s perfectly fine. Just make sure you make time for guys’ nights every once in a while. You don’t want to lose yourself in the relationship. If it doesn’t work out for whatever reason, you might find yourself flying solo.
8. YOU START WORKING OUT AND EATING RIGHT
Sometimes when we’re single, we let things get a little soft and flabby, living off junk food and frequently foregoing visits to the gym. But when you’re with the right person, you always want to look and feel your best. You’re crazy attracted to her and you’re willing to do whatever you can to ensure she feels the same way about you.
9. YOU OVER MISS HER WHEN SHE’S NOT AROUND
Whether she’s leaving town on business, going back to her place on Sunday night or just getting up off the couch to use the bathroom, you miss her. The minute she’s gone, all your thoughts turn to her and you want her back by your side again.
10. YOU START TO GROW UP
When you experience actual grown-up feelings like love, you start to assess your lifestyle. If you’ve been staying with your mom or acting like life’s one big party, the right woman can make you start thinking about putting childish things away and to start acting like a goddamn adult.
11. YOU’RE PROTECTIVE OF HER
You’re her knight in shining armor and all that shit, and you take that responsibility seriously. You won’t let her fend for herself if she’s being picked on, if she’s having a rough time, you do what you can to alleviate her stress. You care about her and want her to be safe—and to know you’ll always be there for her.